'Not belonging in our families is still one of the most dangerous hurts. That's because it has the power to break our heart, our spirit, and our sense of self-worth.'
'Perspective is a function of experience.'
'Sometimes the most dangerous things for kids is the silence that allows them to construct their own stories - stories that almost always cast them as alone and unworthy of love and belonging.'
'I found my primary coping mechanism for not belonging in studying people. I was a seeker of pattern and connection. I knew I could recognize patterns in people's behaviours and connect those patterns to what people were feeling and doing, I could find my way. I used pattern recognition skills to anticipate what people wanted, what they thought, or what they were doing. I learned how to say the right thing or show up in the right way.'
Friday, December 14, 2018
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